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20 Things NOT to say… (Invisible Illness)

Posted by Kelli on September 14th, 2009

20 Things NOT to say to a Chronically Ill Person

These lists are compliments of National Invisible Chronic Illness Awareness Weekat www.invisbleillness.com.Get involved in Invisible Illness Week this year during the week of September 14-20, 2009, including the 5-day virtual conference online.

#1 You look so good today!

#2 You just need to get out of the house more.

#3 If you stop thinking about it, the pain will go away.

#4 You should just pray harder.

#5 You must not want to get better if you wont try this…

#6 When I was your age I didn’t have the luxury of being sick.

#7 You’re sick again?

#8 I wish I could just sit around all day.

#9 No pain, no gain!

#10 I’d be sick too if I saw doctors as much as you do.

#11 I have this juice that is working wonders!

#12 You must still have sin in your life.

#13 If you got a job you would have something else to think about.

#14 Your illness is caused by stress.

#15 You can not be in that much pain. Maybe you just want attention…

#16 What have you done to make God so mad at you?

#17 There are easier ways to get attention.

#18 It’s not good for your kids to always hear you whining.

#19 When are you going to get rid of that cane?

#20 I’m so glad to see you out and about feeling all better.

Source: http://invisibleillnessweek.com


I have to disagree with #1 in some situations. If someone is chronically ill, especially those with an invisbile illness, and it looks like they have put forth the effort to look better, then compliment them! I’d rather hear I look good when I’ve done myself up a bit. It’s nice to know other notice as well.. You have to know what this person ‘normally’ looks like and the amount of effort usually put into their personal appearance. A bit of makeup & a good hairbrushing into a simple style with a nice set of clothes can change how a a person look easily! Myself, if I have spent time on my hair, put on makeup, that’s a sign that I am having a decent day & want to look nicer.. However, wearing a dress isn’t necessarily a sign cuz for me dresses are generally easier to wear than slacks other a blouse. Others might find wearing a dress to be too stressful

If they just look ‘healthier’, be wary, it might be & could easily be a facade.. If you take the time to look, you will know the difference..

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Fibromyalgia Pain at Night

Posted by Kelli on July 21st, 2009

Fibromyalgia Pain at Night – 10 Tips for Better Sleep
WebMD Feature By Jeanie Lerche Davis

Do you toss and turn at night because of fibromyalgia pain or discomfort?

“People with fibromyalgia tend to have very disturbed sleep,” says Doris Cope, MD, director of Pain Management at the University of Pittsburgh School of Medicine. “Even if they sleep 10 hours a night, they still feel fatigued, don’t feel rested.”

Research shows that with fibromyalgia, there is an automatic arousal in the brain during sleep. Frequent disruptions prevent the important restorative processes from occurring. Growth hormone is mostly produced during sleep. Without restorative sleep and the surge of growth hormone, muscles don’t heal and neurotransmitters (like the mood chemical serotonin) are not replenished. The lack of a good night’s sleep makes people with fibromyalgia wake up feeling tired and fatigued.

The result: The body can’t recuperate from the day’s stresses — all of which overwhelms the system, creating a great sensitivity to pain. Widespread pain, sleep problems, anxiety, depression, fatigue, and memory difficulties are all symptoms of fibromyalgia.

Insomnia takes many forms — trouble falling asleep, waking up often during the night, having trouble going back to sleep, and waking up too early in the morning. Smoothing out those sleep problems — and helping people get the deep sleep their bodies need — helps fibromyalgia pain improve significantly, research shows.

Medications can help enhance sleep and relieve pain. But doctors also advocate lifestyle changes to help sleep come naturally.

Tips to Get Better Sleep With Fibromyalgia

Creating a comfort zone at home is key to better sleep, whether you have fibromyalgia or not. It’s all about easing into bedtime feeling relaxed — and staying relaxed so you sleep through the night.

These 10 tips can help people sleep better:

* Enjoy a soothing (warm) bath in the evening.
* Brush your body with a loofah or long-handled brush in the bath.
* Ease painful tender points with a self-massage device (like a tennis ball).
* Do yoga and stretching exercises to relax.
* Listen to calming music.
* Meditate to tame intrusive thoughts and tension.
* Sleep in a darkened room. Try an eye mask if necessary.
* Keep the room as quiet as possible (or use a white-noise machine).
* Make sure the room temperature is comfortable.
* Avoid foods that contain caffeine, including teas, colas, and chocolate.

Therapies to Treat Insomnia When You Have Fibromyalgia

If you’re still having sleep problems, several therapies can help, including biofeedback, relaxation training, stress reduction, and cognitive therapy. A psychologist who specializes in sleep disorders can discuss these therapies with you.

The therapies help people handle stress better, which helps control fibromyalgia episodes, Cope says. “Fibromyalgia comes and goes,” she tells WebMD. “When you’re stressed out, that’s when it’s worse.” That’s when you’re most likely to have insomnia, too.

Medications can also help ease fibromyalgia pain at night, or directly treat insomnia. Medications to ease fibromyalgia at night include antidepressants, anticonvulsants, prescription pain relievers, and sleep aids.

No one therapy will control fibromyalgia pain 100%, Cope adds.

“Medications help some. Exercise helps some. Stress reduction helps some. Cognitive behavior therapy helps some… If you can get restful sleep, you’re going to function better when you’re awake.”

Source: WebMD

Categories

Posted by Kelli on May 24th, 2009

The sole purpose of this post is to create, and potentially modify categories for this Blog. Initially, I had this categorized list.. Three columns, each with the appropriate title.. That was until I realized, well, I needed a new category.. I don’t have room for 4 columns, so I gave up on that idea . I’m just gonna put ‘em in alphabetical order and then add later as needed.

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